How to Build a Brand That Doesn't Feel Generic
You want your brand to pop. You want it to stand out, to feel different, to be the one people remember.
So what do you do? You go on Pinterest, find a brand you love, and tell your designer: "I want something like this." You pick beige. You pick a serif font. You add some gold foil. You call it luxurious.
And now you look exactly like everyone else.
I've been building brands for a while now, and this is the pattern I see over and over again. Founders come to me saying they want something unique — and in the same breath, they ask me to copy someone. The irony is almost funny. Almost.
So let's talk about what actually makes a brand feel like yours and not like a template someone swapped a logo onto.
The Beige Brand Epidemic
Here's what I see constantly: everyone wants to be a "luxurious" brand. But when I ask what that means, it usually comes down to one thing — they want to look professional. Maybe they think luxurious will attract more customers. Maybe they think it justifies higher prices. But most of the time, "luxurious" just means "I saw a beige brand that looked expensive and I want that."
The problem? When everyone is beige, nobody stands out.
You tell me you want your logo to pop. Then you tell me to copy someone else's brand. You want to use AI to generate your visuals because it's fast and cheap. That is the opposite of making something pop.
And the data backs this up. 88% of consumers say authenticity matters when choosing which brands they support. Even more telling — 59% of consumers say generic or robotic messaging is one of the fastest ways to kill trust in a brand. People can feel when something isn't real. They might not be able to articulate it, but they know.
It's Never Been About the Logo
I've designed four dental brands. None of them have a tooth in their logo.
You don't need a tooth in your logo to tell people you're a dentist. People are smart enough. They can read your website, your signage, your social media. A literal icon of what you do doesn't make you memorable — it makes you forgettable, and look like you are behind times.
And here's the thing that might sting a little: only about 9% of CMOs believe the logo is the most important element when launching a brand. Nine percent. Because it isn't.
Think about Nike. A tick. Apple. A bitten apple. Adidas. Three stripes. These are some of the most recognised symbols in the world, and Nike famously paid just $35 for their swoosh. But if you think slapping a clever logo on your business will get you there in a few years — think again.
Those brands didn't become iconic because of their logos. They became iconic because they knew who they were and they acted on it, consistently, for decades. The memory stacked. The associations built. Now when you see that tick, you feel something. That's branding.
Hermès, Tiffany — they literally own colours. Just colours. But the moment you see that specific shade of orange or that tiffany blue, you know exactly who it is. Nokia and Netflix have signature sounds that are instantly recognisable. Hotels have signature scents.
All of this is branding. And it’s not a logo. Please, please, please. I don’t know how many more times I need to repeat this to people, but I just hope it gets through to just one more person after reading this.
Why Everyone Ends Up Looking the Same
So why does this keep happening?
People copy what works for others.
They see a big brand succeeding and think if they mimic the strategy, they'll get the same results. Like the Aesop dupes that keep popping up — why? You tell me you want to stand out, and then you tell me you want to look like someone else. Make it make sense.
People want to save money.
I get it. Every business needs to manage costs. But you're saving on the wrong thing. Your brand is your first impression. Would you show up to a job interview in pyjamas because suits are expensive? First impressions matter — studies show it takes just 5 to 7 impressions for someone to even remember your brand. Why would you waste those precious first touches on something generic?
AI makes it worse.
You can build something so fast with AI now. So, so fast. But if you can, so can everyone else. And it ends up looking the same. Research shows that 59% of consumers say AI-generated content actually hurts their trust in a brand. Over 80% of people say they can recognise AI-written content, and about 40% say it makes them view brands more negatively. Speed is not the flex you think it is when the result is forgettable.
Blindly following trends.
Following trends isn't inherently bad, but doing it without thinking is dangerous. Your brand is like Lego blocks — you need a solid foundation, and if you add the wrong pieces, it will collapse. If you're a small brand, your foundation is already thin. You don't have the money, you don't have the reputation yet. One wrong move and you're spending time and money to rebuild what you could've done right from the start.
Start With Feelings, Not Fonts
When a client comes to me, I don't start with colours or fonts. I start with feelings and values.
I want to build something they'll love for a long time — not something they'll need to rebrand in two years. For that to happen, they need to be honest with me and trust the process.
This is why I love working with founder-led businesses. I want to know you. Why did you start this? Not just the money answer — everyone needs money and loves money. Don’t pretend you don’t :) But what made you choose this path? We need that to come through in your brand.
It doesn't have to be you literally telling your story on your About page. It can show up in your values, how you operate, how you treat your customers. What feelings do you want to get from your business? What feelings do you want others to get?
The numbers prove this matters. 81% of consumers need to trust a brand before they'll buy from it. Customers who feel a strong emotional connection to a brand are more than twice as likely to purchase compared to those who don't feel that connection. And here's the one that should make you sit up — a mere 5% increase in brand loyalty can boost your profits by up to 95%.
Feelings aren't fluffy. They're money.
Your Values Are Your Boundaries
Here's something personal: I'm a mum. My working hours are 10 to 3. I only work with people who can accommodate that. And if someone doesn't understand or pushes my boundaries, they're simply not my people.
Time outside work is for me and my family. I don't want to be on my phone answering emails when my kid is home. I want to be present.
That's a value. That's a boundary. And it shows up in my brand — in who I attract, how I operate, and how people experience working with me.
This is what I mean when I say your brand should be built around your life, not the other way around. Don't bend over backwards doing things that go against your values. It won't work out. You'll feel bitter and burnt out. The money is not worth it. Really.
How I Help People Find What Makes Them Different
Most people tell me "I don't know what makes me special. I'm just… normal."
Of course you think you're normal — you can't read the label from inside the bottle.
But here's what I ask: Why are people friends with you? Why did your partner choose you? There are qualities that make people keep you around. What comes easily to you? What do you research for fun? What brings you satisfaction?
I send clients a questionnaire that's basically like journaling. I encourage them to take their time with it. Then I get on a call with them and we talk about their brand. I watch where they light up. Where they get excited. Where they can't stop talking.
That's the gold. Those cues give me a vision for them. It's like therapy or vision boarding — they learn so much about themselves and their business in the process too.
The Biggest Mistake When Trying to Stand Out
Being too honest. Too vulnerable.
Look, I'm all for showing your personality. But it's still a business. You still need professional boundaries. Show part of your life, not everything. You choose what and how you portray yourself.
Be opinionated — yes. But don't air your dirty laundry, don’t speak ill of your clients even if they are nightmare clients. Don't put people down or fear-monger just to climb higher. It might work short-term, but people will remember you for the wrong reasons.
"But My Industry Is Boring"
Oh, then isn't it easier for you to stand out?
If you think your industry is boring, you must have some ideas to make it interesting. And if you genuinely find it boring… maybe it's not even for you. People can nerd out over absolutely anything. There are communities for everything. You will always find others who share your experience, your weird interests, your perspective. That shared connection is where your brand lives.
If everyone in your space looks the same — amazing. You can stand out just by being yourself. Look at your own life. Your fashion. The things you buy. The things you're drawn to. That's your taste. Follow it.
Three Steps to Build a Brand That Feels Like You
1. Start with yourself.
If you have no idea where to begin, journal. Write down your thoughts, your values, what lights you up. You can even feed it to AI to help spot patterns and themes — that's actually a great use for it. Work through those ideas and any limiting beliefs that come up.
2. Define your feelings, values, and non-negotiables.
You're building a business around your life. Not a business that forces you to work more than ever. Building a business is hard enough. If you build it in a way that traps you, you might as well go back to a regular job where you can shut down after work and get a monthly salary.
3. Show up somewhere.
You have to share. Tell people something, somewhere, somehow. Choose how you want to show up. If you like speaking, try a podcast or YouTube. If you like writing, try Substack or a blog. If you love aesthetics, go for Instagram or Pinterest. There's no right or wrong platform. Remember, you're in this for the long game. Do it wherever you enjoy, and it will happen for you. If it feels unbearably hard to show up somewhere, then maybe that platform isn't for you. Or you just don’t want this hard enough.
The Bottom Line
Brand consistency can increase your revenue by up to 33%. But consistency doesn't mean copying someone else's brand and sticking with it. It means knowing who you are — deeply, honestly — and showing up that way, everywhere, over time.
Your brand should be something that if someone took your name off it, people would still know it's you. Not because of a fancy logo, but because of how it feels.
Stop chasing beige, stop copying, stop rushing. Just don’t look at your competitors and stay in your lane. Helps with imposter syndrome as well.
Build it right, build it to be yours and make it last.
With Love, Jia
Sources
Lucidpress/Marq — Brand Consistency & Revenue Growth — Brand consistency driving 10–33% revenue increasesEdelman Trust Barometer 2025 — Brand Trust Special Report — 81% of consumers need to trust a brand before buyingClutch — Brands Are Losing Consumer Trust as 97% Demand Authenticity — 97% say authenticity influences decisions; 59% cite generic messaging as a trust killerShapo — 100+ Branding Statistics for 2025 — 5–7 impressions needed for brand recall; 88% of consumers valuing authenticity
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